How to Spot an American in BTZ

Having fully immersed myself in the French lifestyle here in Biarritz, it's become easy to spot an American.

Volume is the giveaway – that boisterous laughter and animated chatter unmistakably scream, "I'm from across the Atlantic." While the French appreciate a more subdued approach to conversation, Americans tend to bring a bit of vocal exuberance to the scene.

To-go-coffee? Absolutely American. While I've traded the hurried "coffee-to-go" for the French art of savoring café while sitting, you can still easily spot an American by drinking their coffee on the move. They stand out like a sore thumb.

Speaking only one language? Yep, that tends to be an American habit. It's not uncommon to encounter American visitors who expect everyone to speak English. Why not learn a few helpful phrases before traveling?

And having a current passport, the gateway to new perspectives. It seems uniquely American not to feel the necessity of having one. How can you truly understand the world without experiencing how other people live? Enough with the critique, though.

Driving everywhere. Like most Europeans, I've happily embraced the art of walking – be it through the streets of Biarritz while facing the unpredictable weather with a nonchalant shrug. It's a shift from the American car-centric lifestyle. The other aspect of driving is navigating the narrow roads, tight parking garages, and the rules on the autoroute. In the fast lane, the only excuse to be in that lane is if you're passing someone; blinker on and constant awareness are the norm. If someone isn't following these rules, they're not European.

Leaning on everything was once my thing, but these days, I've mastered the French skill of standing upright with a certain poise. In the States, casually leaning on walls or market stalls is the norm, but here in France, maintaining an upright stance is more in line.

Walking with a sense of urgency. You know the fast pace that reflects the "time is money" mentality. In contrast, the French stroll with a certain elegance, their posture impeccable, and their gait unhurried, as if confident that whatever destination awaits will patiently wait for their arrival. It's a subtle yet distinct difference that sets them apart on the streets of Biarritz.

Touching produce at markets? Not here. It's a strict "ne touche pas" policy. In France, the act of touching fruits and vegetables is reserved for the seller, ensuring the produce remains pristine. It's a stark contrast to the more hands-on approach in American markets. This rule applies to retail stores too.

Americans make eye contact and smile at people, a friendly gesture that often catches Europeans off guard, who may interpret it as overly familiar or insincere. They're also prone to being overly friendly, like asking a waiter for their name, an unnecessary gesture, or even intrusive to Europeans who expect efficient service without the need for personal rapport. And that's why, despite my French glasses, European clothes, and even a French hairstyle, everyone still knows I'm American.

So, here's to speaking softly, standing poised with perfect posture, making time to enjoy a coffee, and blending into the rhythm of life in Biarritz.